Julie Anne, like Daisy, you too are filtering the Bible through experiences as well as using a logical non-sequiter. The best part of domestic discipline is what has happened emotionally between this long-time married couple. I am doing much better now and am very glad to be removed from all that. It is almost enough to make me hope that the doctrine of eternal conscious punishment is true, at least for some whose evil actions in this life are especially egregious. When Jamin came home with a new laptop and never mentioned it to her she was trying to keep him accountable. If kink is your thing, thats your thing, but dont sit there and try to convince me or anyone else you got kink from the Bible because you sure as heck did not. Its perverse secular culture which advocates and promoted S&M kinky bedroom games not the Bible. In the above examples, we see non-denominational, charismatic/evangelical, Reformed Presbyterian denominations represented. Because, Julie Anne, is that not what you feel about any woman who wants to give her husband the authority to lead, let alone any women who would quite like to be disciplined or feel powerless in the bedroom?. 1. And dont tell me you never wanted to have sex on an altar! Even Satan quoted scripture. So thank you, from the bottom of my heart! My husband tells me all the time how proud he is of the woman I have become. Then stop discussing it here and promoting it. And there goes the bitter card. I think he probably smacked my bottom about 10 times (bare bottom, OTK, with his hand). I would be fine with the term myself if used in that manner, but the word feminism unfortunately is usually associated with left wing, radical types who tend to do things like support abortion, and a lot of them vote Democrat. 1Cor 11:3 But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Enter your email address to follow this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. They like their wrists held, maybe, or even being tied to the bed. As a man and a Christian myself, I think all Christians need to listen to these stories. But he never swore, or acted out of control. Here is a tasty quote AGAINST wife-spanking: Jim Alsdurf, a forensic psychologist who evaluates and treats sexual psychopaths and is the author of a book on abuse in Christian homes, says CDD isnt about religionits an outlet for emotionally disturbed men with intimacy deficits. You cannot say you respect and love an adult when you treat them like a child and all these women who are letting their husbands hit them you cant love yourself. And you just assume I am a man because it never enters your intolerant head that a woman could actually want to put herself under her husbands headship. I cant remember if you said how long you were married. And I also do not agree with her getting spanked in front of others. What does that actually mean? In an abusive home, children do not have a sense of a normal healthy marriage, so thismodeling of abusive behaviorcould affect generations. Lets keep working on putting a stop to it. No wife who has ever been spanked by her husband submitted out of fear? Please be careful if you are easily triggered by topics of abuse. Anderson saying, Its not common for someone to hurt themselves because theyre desperate for their husbands attention and their husbands not giving them the love they need and so they wack themselves. I was too worked up to explain. The Bible advocates for stoning as do some Muslim countries. Even interpreting the Bible in an incorrect way as you do to read authority into the Bible, your view only addresses married mothers, and is not applicable or workable for never-married women, widows, the infertile, the childfree or the divorced. But you dont know whether shes a Christian. What was your parents response about the spanking? When this day happens, the laws will already have been written but will not be enforced or taken seriously anymore, so with many regards, the state of women will be worse than it used to be because theyll be nothing clear they can do to improve their fate. They did not see his authority as abusive, but appropriate. Is it Fair for A Fat Christian Man to Expect His Wife to RemainFit? You go to great lengths to make it a mental sickness and an abuse which it isnt. He was so different than the other Christians I had met, many of whom tormented my Jewish best friend and my completely secular family. When you wrote: You cannot find a single Bible verse that says that never married adult women must submit to a man because there is no such concept you had forgotten Numbers 30:3-5. She knew her Bible inside out, she just keeps quoting the Old Testament over and over. Or did he simply say a prayer for him and his wife, that they would be able to work it out in a godly way? This may help you win a popularity contest in this community, but if you really are a spiritual man and aspire to justice, I would quote Proverbs 28:5 : Evil men do not understand justice, But those who seek the LORD understand all things. Jennas Punishment Spanking (Christian Domestic Discipline Marriage #1) During a disagreement, Jenna storms out of the house without telling her husband where she's going. Your desire to lord authority over your wife and get off on that and doing kinky acts in the bedroom is your personal preference, it is not biblical. Webchristian domestic discipline; Corset Waist Training; Deep Thoughts; Exercise and Chocolate; Fiction; maintenance; marriage; my submissiveness; Orgasm Control; Pierced Nipples; Punishment; Spanking; Submission; swingers I will say this. I wished people like you existed since the beginning of times so the world would be a much better place even though apart from labelling people victims and abusers, your general philosophies do not do much to help relationships work as is evidenced by the disfunctional state of marriages today that have become a mess just at the same period your ideological ideals started to become turned into laws. I see no interest whatsoever on your side on actually studying what you are talking about. After we got home, I received the worst spanking I have ever received to this day! (no spanking adults goes without saying, though your parents just may provoke Prime Minister Justin Trudeau TO say that) They plan these relationships and there is no knowledge asymmetry. christian domestic discipline Certain things like really bad attitude, yelling at anyone in the house, throwing a fit when mad, or being disrespectful (especially in front of others) will all add up to a bad whippin after a while. Months later, I finally reported on the topic of wife spanking in this article:The Christian Patriarchy Movements Dark Secret of WifeSpanking. So-called Christian domestic discipline occurs in a marriage when one or both partners use biblical support to rationalize an unscriptural and un-Christian lifestyle. He teaches us that God made women because our husbands needed a obedient helpmate , God made women to serve and obey without question our husbands. And do you realize that labelling people as abusers is a very serious and insulting thing to do ? For your prescription is to amputate all arms because some hands could possibly get infected at some point in the future. I cannot begin to identify with you in your suffering. Wheres the barf bag? When I was growing up, it was not in a household that practiced Christian Domestic Discipline. And then after that we will spend several articles looking at cultural views of domestic discipline in America before the modern age. Eph 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. These testimonials are arranged in reverse order, with the most recent one first. Domestic Discipline is the same sort of addictive behavior. You went from your father as protector/provider/authority to your husband as protector/provider/authority. When we got there he told me that he was fed up with the way I was behaving and I was going to be punished right then. It contains articles on spanking in marriage, as well as advice on leading the home. 1 Peter 3:7. I would encourage you to visit the following site, especially their blog section Spare the rod, spoil the wife I know this is true. Christian Domestic Discipline It should be private. The size difference between you and he is considerable and would be very threatening. I was home-schooled and was raised to not even think about college. Enter your email address to subscribe to this blog and receive notifications of new posts by email. There are many things practiced all over the globe that would not be suitable for Christians. I write about marital discipline in a Christian home at my website spankingyourwife.wordpress.com. Instead, I understand that person to be trapped in a self-destructive pattern of addiction. Are you serious? I have already done that in my previous posts like The Biblical Case for Domestic Discipline. I can see from your posts that you have major issues with men, but please dont filter the Bible through your own experiences. Wifes getting spanked like being spanked. [redacted] mentioned a previous domestic violence incident that was reported by [redacted] on 06/01/2011, at approximately 2302 hours. The one thing that surprised me was how happy all the married couples were. DavidA Use only an open hand, no objects You accuse me of accusing. Youre the one with issues and hang ups in regards to sexuality. Are you able to support yourself okay? Testimonials of Loving Domestic Discipline Have you read Marys song, known as the Magnificat? It is not a defense of Domestic Discipline. When I read you, I see sincere people suffering sort of post-traumatic disorder. He thinks this makes me more submissive, and thus more available to learn from Gods word. I dont think I have the right to question how my husband corrects me.